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EP 31Skylar GravesPro Cheer1 hr 24 min

Episode 31: Miami Metal's Skylar Graves Shares His Incredible Journey | CDU

What does it take to become one of the first professional cheer athletes in history? Skylar Graves — professional athlete for Miami Metal, former Trinity Valley standout, and Worlds Champion with USA Stars Obsession — shares his journey from competitive gymnastics into all-star cheer, college cheer, Worlds, and the inaugural Pro Cheer League season. We cover growing up as a boy in gymnastics, breaking the stigma around boys in cheer, college scholarships, mental toughness, brotherhood in cheer, and finding your purpose. Here for every count.

EP 31
EP 31Skylar GravesPro Cheer1 hr 24 min

Episode 31: Miami Metal's Skylar Graves Shares His Incredible Journey | CDU

What does it take to become one of the first professional cheer athletes in history? Skylar Graves — professional athlete for Miami Metal, former Trinity Valley standout, and Worlds Champion with USA Stars Obsession — shares his journey from competitive gymnastics into all-star cheer, college cheer, Worlds, and the inaugural Pro Cheer League season. We cover growing up as a boy in gymnastics, breaking the stigma around boys in cheer, college scholarships, mental toughness, brotherhood in cheer, and finding your purpose. Here for every count.

EP 30
EP 30Alex SimonisPro Cheer1 hr 12 min

Alex Simonis: From Back Spot to Pro Cheer League | The Roadmap Every Cheer Family Needs

What does it really take to go from a young All-Star athlete to competing in the Professional Cheer League? Alex Simonis — back spot, former Arizona State STUNT athlete, high school coach, and current member of the Atlanta Air — breaks down every stage of an athlete's journey, why back spots deserve more recognition, what college coaches are really looking for, and what it takes to reach the pro level.

EP 29
EP 29Parker KimberCheer Dads1 hr 6 min

How Parker Kimber Became Cheer's Most Legendary Cheer Dad

From rodeo arenas to all star cheer competitions, Parker Kimber never expected to become one of the most recognizable cheer dads in the community. We talk fatherhood, the famous glitter beard, becoming the go-to competition hair dad, parenting through injuries, building community inside your gym, and why having fun might be the most important part of the entire journey.

EP 28
EP 28Gina BartelCheer Moms1 hr 6 min

Gina Bartel Shares the Truth About Cheer Moms, Team Culture & All Star Cheer

Our first ever Cheer Mom has officially entered the chat. Gina Bartel — creator of Cheer Moms Anonymous and co-host of Let's Talk Cheer — gives an honest look at life from a cheer mom's perspective: Pop Warner to All Star, coaching her daughter, navigating gym changes, tryouts, team moms, competition weekends, Pizza Paul, Crock-Pots at Summit and everything in between.

EP 27
EP 27Hallie GreenPro Cheer1 hr 11 min

How Hallie Green Went from All Star Cheer to Dallas Drive Pro Cheer

What does the path from All-Star cheer to professional cheer really look like? Hallie Green shares her journey from a tiny tumbler in Delaware to Stingrays, Cheer Athletics, Navarro College, and now Dallas Drive in the Pro Cheer League — Summit & Worlds experiences, what Cheer on Netflix doesn't show, and the mindset required to reach the top.

EP 26
EP 26Joe RodgersCheer Dads1 hr 19 min

Joe Rodgers Built FullOut Energy to Decode Cheer Scoring

Your team hits a routine, the crowd goes crazy — then the scores come out and everyone is asking, "wait… what happened?" Joe Rodgers, fellow cheer dad and founder of FullOut Energy, joins us to talk about the challenge of understanding cheer scoring and how a simple spreadsheet evolved into a growing cheer data platform.

EP 25
EP 25Hollis HaleCheer Dads1 hr 23 min

How Hollis Hale Built Cheer Dad Apparel & Won Youth Summit

What happens when a former basketball player gets pulled into the world of all-star cheer? Hollis Hale, founder of Cheer Dad Apparel, shares his journey from his daughter's first season to Youth Summit championships, Worlds, cross-country travel, and launching a brand built specifically for cheer dads.

EP 24
EP 24Judge MimiJudges1 hr 20 min

Judge Mimi Breaks Down Cheer Scoring, Worlds & Judge Perspectives

What do judges actually look for during a routine? With 20+ years of judging experience, Judge Mimi pulls back the curtain on execution, Worlds & Summit scoring, uniforms and visual presentation, parent behavior at competitions, and what separates elite programs from good ones.

EP 23
EP 23Justin CarrierIndustry Leaders1 hr 31 min

Inside Varsity Events, Cheer Culture & Athlete Experience w/ Justin Carrier

What actually goes into creating the biggest cheer events in the world? Justin Carrier — VP of Event Experience & Operations at Varsity Spirit — shares 30+ years of stories on the evolution of All Star cheer, athlete experience, behind-the-scenes competition moments, the Pro Cheer League, and the future of Varsity events.

EP 22
EP 22Bill SeelyIndustry Leaders1 hr 22 min

Pro Cheer, Olympics & Cheer's Future w/ Varsity's Bill Seely

Three newer cheer dads sit down with Bill Seely — President of Varsity Spirit — for an honest, surprisingly personal conversation about the future of cheerleading, the rise of the Pro Cheer League, Team USA, Olympic possibilities, parenting through sports, and what makes this sport so special.

EP 21
EP 21Hannah KirbyCollege Cheer1 hr 34 min

College Cheer Recruiting, Scholarships & NAIA w/ Hannah Kirby

What does it really take to cheer in college? Hannah Kirby — Head Cheer Coach at Taylor University — unpacks recruiting, scholarships, NAIA vs NCAA, what coaches actually look for in athletes, social media mistakes, the role parents should (and shouldn't) play, and how cheer can open doors far beyond the sport.

EP 20
EP 20Cody — Cheer Dad LifeCheer Dads1 hr 16 min

Cheer Parent Mistakes & Raising Athletes

Cody from Cheer Dad Life — 10+ year cheer dad veteran and author of "The Cheer Dad's Survival Guide: All Star Cheer Edition" — joins us to talk about the real cost of all-star cheer, the biggest mistakes new cheer parents make, why parents rush levels too fast, winning vs athlete development, and how cheer builds confidence and leadership in kids.

EP 19
EP 19Roger SchonderPro Cheer1 hr 17 min

Inside All-Star Cheer & The Pro League w/ Roger Schonder

Roger Schonder — co-founder of Stingrays (25+ years) and Team Manager for Atlanta Air in the Pro Cheer League — breaks down the reality of all-star cheer from the inside. The biggest lie parents believe about making teams, how tryouts actually work, the 3-tier athlete reality, the pressure of Worlds, and the rise of the Pro Cheer League.

EP 18
EP 18Brooke — Queen B ChoreoCoaches1 hr 18 min

What Cheer Choreographers Actually Do (Scoring & Routines)

Coach. Judge. Gym owner. Choreographer. Brooke (Queen B Choreo) breaks down what really goes into building a routine — and it's way more than just dance. How routines are built to maximize the score sheet, difficulty vs execution, why small details decide competitions, and behind-the-scenes judging insights you're not supposed to know.

EP 17
EP 17Keenan — Cheer Dad TVCheer Dads1 hr 23 min

Keenan on Burnout, Pushing Your Athlete & Cheer Parent Mistakes

What's the right way to push your athlete in cheer? Keenan (Cheer Dad TV), a 5-year cheer dad, joins us to talk burnout, parenting, and what most cheer parents get wrong — how to push without burning them out, what to do after a tough loss, the emotional side of competitive cheer, and what cheer parents don't always see.

EP 16
EP 16Jay YoderCheer Dads1 hr 19 min

Jay Yoder on Parenting, Cheer and Confidence

This one went deeper than we expected. We sit down with comedian and cheer dad Jay Yoder and get into everything from parenting and perspective to what cheer has meant for his family — the realities of cheer parent life, confidence and growth through youth sports, and the moments that stick with you forever.

EP 15
EP 15Cheer Dads1 hr 18 min

We Didn't Expect Cheer to Change This Much… (Year 1 Reflections)

After a big weekend of showcase and stunt class, we reflect on where we're at as cheer dads heading into the final stretch of the season. With Regional Summit around the corner — what we've learned in our first year, how our daughters have grown, the moments that surprised us most, and the big decisions coming next.

EP 14
EP 14Cheer Dads53 min

Hit Zero Is a Lie?! The Truth About Cheer Pressure & Injuries

Is "hitting zero" actually overrated? We break down the reality behind scoring, judging, and the pressure athletes face when every routine comes down to two minutes — plus how injuries impact team dynamics and whether competitive cheer is becoming too expensive.

EP 13
EP 13Cheer Dads1 hr 1 min

We Hit Zero and Still Got 5th Place?!

Best routine of the season. No falls. No deductions. And somehow we got 5th place. We unpack the reality of cheer judging when it impacts your own team, why clean routines don't guarantee a win, and Geoff's hottest takes on judging, costs, and uniforms.

EP 12
EP 12Gabby MauroJudges1 hr 14 min

What Judges Actually Look For in Cheer Routines (ft. Gabby Mauro)

The dads finally stop guessing about cheer scoring and bring in an actual judge. Gabby Mauro pulls back the curtain on how routines are really evaluated, common scoring myths, and what parents misunderstand about competitions.

EP 11
EP 11Cheer Dads60 min

Why Dads Need to Step Up in Competitive Cheer

Why don't more dads get involved in competitive cheer? We talk about what it really means to show up — not just as the driver or the wallet, but as an engaged dad in your daughter's sport. Breaking into a mom-dominated culture and leading by example.

EP 10
EP 10Coach ShaqCoaches1 hr 6 min

The Truth About Being a Male Cheerleader | Coach Shaq

Coach Shaq — competitive athlete on Team Reign and coach at USA Gym — shares one of the most powerful stories we've had on the show. Breaking stereotypes, finding cheer after football, identity, resilience, and the impact coaches can have on young athletes.

EP 9
EP 9Cheer Dads1 hr 7 min

The Fall That Fueled Us | Jamfest + 1.25 Deduction Breakdown

We walked into Mullet Arena confident — and walked out with a 1.25 major building fall deduction and one of the biggest growth moments of the season. What causes a 1.25 deduction, how the girls recovered instantly, and why losing might be fuel for the Summit.

EP 8
EP 8Izzy, Everly & RubyCheer Dads58 min

Through Their Eyes – Our Girls' First Year in Competitive Cheer

This one is all heart. We sit down with our daughters — Izzy, Everly, and Ruby — to hear what their first year in competitive cheer has been like from THEIR perspective. Then the dads jump back on the mic to talk Jam Fest and being first-year cheer dads figuring it out together.

EP 7
EP 7Coach Carly & Coach CoeenCoaches1 hr 4 min

Inside Competitive Cheer with Our Coaches

We sit down with our daughters' coaches Carly and Coeen for a real, honest conversation about competitive cheer from their perspective — coaching journeys, what judges actually look for, the parent–coach dynamic, and why community and connection matter.

EP 6
EP 6Cheer Dads50 min

From First Comp Chaos to National Champions

Our first cheer competition was chaos — nerves, confusion, overstimulation. Then our girls took the floor and we heard the words we never expected: national champions. The emotions dads don't expect, how scoring actually works, and how this weekend changed our girls and us.

EP 5
EP 5Cheer Dads43 min

The Calm Before the Chaos (First Practice Back + Comp Nerves)

Competition season is officially here. The calm before the chaos — first week back in the gym after Christmas break, new skills introduced two weeks out from competition, flyers and bases and parent anxiety, what comp weekends actually cost, and why dad energy in the stands matters.

EP 4
EP 4Cheer Dads45 min

Christmas Break, Private Lessons & Gearing Up for Comp Season

Tom, Geoff, and David recap the Christmas break, talk through private lessons, and shift fully into competition season mode as the girls prepare for their first comps. The mental shift heading into comp season, expectations, nerves, and early-season realities.

EP 3
EP 3Cheer Dads38 min

A Real Week in the Life of a Cheer Dad (Team Mom Cameos)

What does a real week in the life of a cheer dad actually look like? We break down the controlled chaos — pre-practice hype, post-practice crash outs, Tuesday vs Thursday practice energy, and the mental load parents don't expect. Plus unexpected appearances from our team moms.

EP 2
EP 2Cheer Dads53 min

The Cheer World Deep Dive (Everything We Wish We Knew)

We break down our first five months in competitive cheer and everything we wish someone had warned us about. Time commitment, hidden costs, cheer culture, mom vs dad roles, coaches, team culture, and what competition season is really about. Nothing is off the table.

EP 1
EP 1Cheer Dads58 min

Welcome to Cheer Dads Unfiltered

Welcome to Episode 1. We're three dads who accidentally found ourselves deep in the world of competitive cheer — practices, comps, cheer moms, cheer math, and all the chaos. How our families got into it, what surprised us most, and the culture, commitment, and costs no one warns you about.