Parent Question

What does Ryan O’Connor mean by “call up, not call out”?

Short answer

In Episode 45, Ryan frames correction as belief that an athlete can meet a shared standard, with accountability and teammate support—not humiliation. Her exact wording is: “We call it a call up. We don’t call it a call out. It’s a call up.”

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What that means in practice

Her film-review discussion emphasizes understanding why a rep worked or failed without turning review into shame. She describes athlete-led teams learning to assess preparation and take shared responsibility. The approach to feedback must fit the athlete’s age and readiness; accountability does not justify personal attacks.

Expert context

Season 1 sources

Ryan Martin O’Connor
Episode 45
University of Kentucky Cheerleading head coach sharing her Episode 45 athlete-and-coach perspective.

Last reviewed 2026-10-30

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Episodes that cover this

EP 45Cheer Dads Unfiltered – Episode 45: The Human Inside the Uniform with Kentucky Cheer’s Ryan Martin O’Connorwith Ryan Martin O’Connor

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RYAN MARTIN O’CONNORHEAD COACH • UNIVERSITY OF KENTUCKY CHEERLEADING

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